What Are You Missing?

by Susan Gabriel on February 24, 2009

 

This is one of those stories that circulates every year or so via email. It is a good story and I will repeat it here for anyone who hasn’t read it yet. The story first appeared in the Washington Post, in an article written by Gene Weingarten, called Pearls Before Breakfast.

 

A man stood inside a metro station in Washington DC and started to play the violin; it was a cold January morning. He played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time, since it was rush hour, it was calculated that a thousand people went through the station, most of them on their way to work.

 

Three minutes went by and a middle aged man noticed there was musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds and then hurried up to meet his schedule.

 

 

 

A minute later, the violinist received his first dollar tip: a woman threw the money in the till and without stopping continued to walk.

 

A few minutes later, someone leaned against the wall to listen to him, but the man looked at his watch and started to walk again. Clearly he was late for work.

 

The one who paid the most attention was a 3 year old boy. His mother tagged him along, hurried but the kid stopped to look at the violinist. Finally the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk turning his head all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. All the parents, without exception, forced them to move on.

 

In the 45 minutes the musician played, only 6 people stopped and stayed for a while. About 20 gave him money but continued to walk their normal pace. He collected $32. When he finished playing and silence took over, no one noticed it. No one applauded, nor was there any recognition.

 

No one knew this but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the best musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth 3.5 million dollars.

 

Two days before his playing in the subway, Joshua Bell sold out at a theater in Boston and the seats average $100.

 

This is a real story. Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and priorities of people. The outlines were: in a commonplace environment at an inappropriate hour: Do we perceive beauty? Do we stop to appreciate it? Do we recognize the talent in an unexpected context?

 

One of the possible conclusions from this experience could be: If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world playing the best music ever written, how many other things are we missing?

 

P.S. I have been fortunate enough to see Joshua Bell play in concert. He is truly a wonderful musician. Even if he was disguised as a street musician, I would like to think I would have stopped to listen. But maybe if I was on my way to work, and was running late, who knows. How much do we miss, even when the child in us is pulled in by the wonder of the moment? Would you have stopped?

 

 

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{ 4 comments… read them below or add one }

April February 24, 2009 at 8:30 am

Thank you so much for posting this – it came at the perfect time for me. It’s so easy to get caught up in the sweep of the daily details and forget about the beauty all around us … even the beauty of the people in our lives.

Susan Gabriel February 24, 2009 at 9:00 am

April, I’m glad it was helpful to you, and I appreciate your eloquent comment.

All the best,
Susan

pamela anderson February 25, 2009 at 3:22 am

susan ty for that beautiful story sad isn’t it how people are? and the sweet innocent children knew it was beautiful special but busy parents just sent them going…… yes i would have stopped to listen for someone who can play a violin to sweetly sing is well worth the stop….oxox pam

Susan Gabriel February 25, 2009 at 6:43 am

Thanks for your comment, Pam. Maybe we would have both stopped and stood there listening together.

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